Yeah, it is the main reason I stay away from male focused CN’s with a contemporary setting. If you are looking for a CN to read, I am currently reading this, ~300 chapters in, and it is fairly good so far: https://twkan.com/book/81682/index.html
Here is an old version of my Liked Songs playlist, a few hundred over 10,000 on the current version but Spotify playlists only can be 10k songs. [https://open.spotify.com/playlist/2izgBO6HVMAMW1q0pDrrh9?si=CQuCzxynRTaTSFmtq5pLgQ&pi=PlcLU1TbTZ-wT