I can best compare this situation to back when my "big main thing" was composing original classical music, from scratch. Its ahuge undertaking. You feel up against the wall, that you;re doing something "impossible". But you do it anyways. Just when you start getting somewhere, anywhere. You run into things that make no sense. Advice, tutorials.
---do thing X
---do not do thing X.
---your mindset should be Y
---Y is a mistake! Here's my reasons why.
just when you think you're getting some kind of a handle on "writing", just a tenuous finger-hold, mind you.
you end up in web novel land.
which is for a newcomer to web-novel-land... you wake up in OZ, lol.
the dichotomy increases.
the do this, do not do this... increases in number. Increases in VOLUME.
I best compare this to composing classical music.
its NOT like writing regular music.
its not like songwriting.
you're on your own, deciding which "x and notX" choices to make.
to me, classical composing is like regular music on steroids.
to me, web-novels is like regular paperback writing, again on steroids.
my rules, with lots of so-ca;;ed impossible endeavors I got decent at in my life...
1) forge ahead. keep doing.
2) of course you suck. suck a little less each time, over time.
3) if you cant ignore the (perhaps) well-meaning friends and family "helping" you to get realistic? Get another hobby.
4) if you can't take the most hateful sh!t right on the chin, and laugh and keep going? again, get another hobby.
5) talent? that's just what we call it when the person has experience and is getting somewhere.
music, writing, acting... you name it. All share one thing.
e-v-e-r-y-o-n-e that made it even a little bit? started out with nothing.
do you want to live in a world with no big actors, no writers, no musicians and singers?
because if everyone listened to friends, family, strangers... we'd have NONE of it.
if you can't masnufacture you're own willpower and dedication... you need another hobby.
PS - every single time, at these "impossible" tasks...
late in the game, just when there's no way I'm getting anywhere?
that's where you start to see it come together.
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Editing is a close second though. I swear editing takes me like 5 times as long as the actual writing.
could even be ten times or more. who even knows these things.
but yes, getting serious about writing led me to realize that editing, proofing, sequencing...
whatever in the hell you call all of that.
Yeah, it takes multiple times the amount of time as the actual writing.
and that? is after I got my rough drafting schtick under control, mind you.
and at the end of the day...
I've heard this about musicians then I heard it about writers.
An agent's real job?
They "steal" your work and say "that's it!" and refuse to budge.
because any serious artist (music or writing) will agonize and hand-wring over it ad nauseum.
because at the end of the day, you have to get SOMETHING out the damn door.
yes, we write and we get no...
artist, editor, line editor, alpha reader, beta reader, proofer, market analyst, none of that.
we have to wing it on all those extra jobs.
just... you have to shovel something out the door.
or else you run the risk of spending YEARS crafting this ONE THING.
and even that might not be right.
heard it said we all have "X" number of bad novels inside us, and we have to get those out of our system.
and keep writing.
swing for the seats, damn it.
put numbers up on the board.
keep doing it.