This girl wants to an escape room with me again

Empress_Omnii

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She brought it up and wants me to let her know. If I do it’s going to be either awkward or he will conveniently not show up. I don’t know. Do I say I’m free on a weekend?
To start. Please don't think of it as a romantic advance, it likely isn't. She probably just wants to be a friend, potentially wants to introduce friend circles so you'll talk more.

If you want to be friends, and like to talk. Then sure, tell her you are free. If you don't like her, try to show it by not interacting much with her and deny the invitation.
Additionally, it someone depends on both age range and how close you are. Again I don't know, but her wanting to bring a friend could be for safety (mind you this is often a subconscious choice).
 

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So, what do you expect?

Like, seriously?

What do you expect?

A th.... could I even say the word?

My advice is to politely reject the invitation. While she most likely a well-meant, and totally innocent, invitation without any romantic subtext, the only thing it achieves is to introduce two (potential) rivals to each other, resulting in nothing more than the stressful evening for all of you.

If she somehow manages to introduce you to her boyfriend in will result in one of following three things:
A) boyfriend punches the girl
B) boyfriend punches you
C) boyfriend punches you and then the girl
 

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That long of a contact gap? Sounds like she's wanting to use you to light a fire under the other guy's ass. If she just wanted to be friends she woulda talked to you more.
 

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Go have a threesome ?
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I said okay, but she wants me to go with her and this guy so I think is her boyfriend.
Is he hot?
Go have a threesome ?
If having sex with two other people is a threesome, and three other people is a foursome, why do people keep calling me handsome?
Sounds like alot of drama.
This.

But seriously.

Have you met her parents? Is her father in her life? Were her parents divorced?

If she seems unwilling to discuss her father, or she had little contact with him, or her parents got divorced, run. Do you want a female partner you have to fix? Do you want to be someone's husband or her daddy?

Because being "daddy" gets old really quick.

if you are bored and want to have some drama, go, but it sounds like a waste of time you could spend findng someone who doesn't need to be the center of attention.

Plus, if it's just the three of you. They could lie to screw you. Don't put yourself in situations with unstable people when you don't have witnesses.
 
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The first time we went is fine, but I tried to make plans again, but nothing came up since she told me she is busy. So… a year later she and I are with a few people. She brings up the escape room and asks if I want to go. I said okay, but she wants me to go with her and this guy so I think is her boyfriend. I told her I work this weekend, but let her know when I’m free. So… should I go with them to the Escape Room?
I would say if you have romantic feelings for this girl or hope she will have feelings for you, don't do it. It's pretty clear that if it has been a year and nothing has happened she is not into you for anything serious. If you find yourself capable of a friendship with her that is not romantic in any way and you just want to have fun at an escape room with everyone, then you can go. Don't put any expectations on it, go for yourself if you want to go at all.
 

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The first time we went is fine, but I tried to make plans again, but nothing came up since she told me she is busy. So… a year later she and I are with a few people. She brings up the escape room and asks if I want to go. I said okay, but she wants me to go with her and this guy so I think is her boyfriend. I told her I work this weekend, but let her know when I’m free. So… should I go with them to the Escape Room?
Hearing this I remember about a story where a girl and a boy gets stuck in a 'Escape Room', then electricity blizzed out and they still couldn't find way out. Slowly the room temperature gets high and only the boy has 2 water bottles, the girl's very thirsty now and sweating hard, she needs water very hard. But the boy believes take the opportunity when you have the opportunity! He commands the girl to strip or he won't give the water.... Rest is history that can be found in many patreon pages??
 

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This is way too much drama, politely decline and go on about your business.
Hearing this I remember about a story where a girl and a boy gets stuck in a 'Escape Room', then electricity blizzed out and they still couldn't find way out. Slowly the room temperature gets high and only the boy has 2 water bottles, the girl's very thirsty now and sweating hard, she needs water very hard. But the boy believes take the opportunity when you have the opportunity! He commands the girl to strip or he won't give the water.... Rest is history that can be found in many patreon pages??
Is he hot?

If having sex with two other people is a threesome, and three other people is a foursome, why do people keep calling me handsome?

This.

But seriously.

Have you met her parents? Is her father in her life? Were her parents divorced?

If she seems unwilling to discuss her father, or she had little contact with him, or her parents got divorced, run. Do you want a female partner you have to fix? Do you want to be someone's husband or her daddy?

Because being "daddy" gets old really quick.

if you are bored and want to have some drama, go, but it sounds like a waste of time you could spend findng someone who doesn't need to be the center of attention.

Plus, if it's just the three of you. They could lie to screw you. Don't put yourself in situations with unstable people when you don't have witnesses.
Decided to not bring it up again unless she brings it up. I’ll decline, then to gauge it further I’ll say it would be awkward with me being the third wheel to them.
 
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Decided to not bring it up again unless she brings it up. I’ll decline, then to gauge it further I’ll say it would be awkward with me being the third wheel to them.
I think you should follow my story?

This will be ur lower body part's reaction if u do so:??
 

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The first time we went is fine, but I tried to make plans again, but nothing came up since she told me she is busy. So… a year later she and I are with a few people. She brings up the escape room and asks if I want to go. I said okay, but she wants me to go with her and this guy so I think is her boyfriend. I told her I work this weekend, but let her know when I’m free. So… should I go with them to the Escape Room?
Have some self respect and don't go.
 

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The first time we went is fine, but I tried to make plans again, but nothing came up since she told me she is busy. So… a year later she and I are with a few people. She brings up the escape room and asks if I want to go. I said okay, but she wants me to go with her and this guy so I think is her boyfriend. I told her I work this weekend, but let her know when I’m free. So… should I go with them to the Escape Room?
Don't go if you have lingering feelings for her. It's a matter of self respect. Going with those feelings will only force you to relive the 'what if's'. It's better for your state of mind and self esteem.
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The one time I went to an escape room, the clerk said we had to have more than 2 people to participate. I noped tf out of there and came up with a better date night, and didn't pay that company a dime.
 

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The problem is we live in a backwards Era. If you are male and young, the dating market sucks because it us no longer shameful for older men to date younger women.

I'm 52, married, but I look like I'm forty, fit and make 6 figures while I'm 6'1".

I get hit on by 30 year olds.

What the ever living fuck? I'm MARRIED ffs.

But that's what happens when anything goes. Women decided that standards don't matter and now for a man, dating someone 20 years younger is an option.

So focus on yourself, become successful, then find a girl 10 years younger than you to date when you turn 30 and have a career.
 

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I'm 52, married, but I look like I'm forty, fit and make 6 figures while I'm 6'1".

I get hit on by 30 year olds.
Thank you for showing me the way.

I'm Muffin, 1 year old, single, 10cm in height, a few hundred grams in weight, I earn a significant amount of internet points per day, I'm cute looking as you can see and my papa, @Simple_Russian_Boi, is a Prince so I'm kind of a royalty as well.

I believe age is but a number, so you guys can DM me if interested. The only requirement is to be filthy rich, have a luxurious oven, and preferably be allergic to gluten.
 
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