Opinion on romance in my story

Worthy39

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You guys are funny.

Two things. First, blame Harry. Don't shoot the messenger.

Second, Harry's right. (Go ahead, shoot the messenger.) There's a Romance genre. There's not a "Just Friends" genre.

(Easy, I'm messing around.)

Friends are great. Sure. But I'm trying to think of a book I curled up around and really loved, that was about just friends. I honestly can't think of one. I'm always like, "When are you guys gonna fuck, already?!?!"

I dunno. Maybe it's me.
Well, we kinda went off topics from books at that point, but I do see your point about romances in general. Also, one major point is that the story really isn't a romance, it's mostly an action story. I was just curious about whether or not the romance I intended to implement would be successful, so I'm still split about how I'll end it, but I'll definitely take everything I've heard here into account when I'm writing it.
 

JordanIda

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Yes, sorry we went off, but you just hit one of my buttons: it bugs me that so many of the bloodsoaked swashbuckler type books around here also click the "Romance" tag, just because a couple of the characters get it on when they're not killing everyone in sight and maybe even each other. Romance? Really???

I actually like to read romances. And like an idiot, I use advance search to try to find them. LOL. Few and far between, believe-you-me! :D
 

Worthy39

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Yes, sorry we went off, but you just hit one of my buttons: it bugs me that so many of the bloodsoaked swashbuckler type books around here also click the "Romance" tag, just because a couple of the characters get it on when they're not killing everyone in sight and maybe even each other. Romance? Really???

I actually like to read romances. And like an idiot, I use advance search to try to find them. LOL. Few and far between, believe-you-me! :D
I don't think I have yet, or intend to add the romance tag. The romance won't exactly be a massive aspect of the story, and while there may be an occasional chapter or two that focuses on that aspect, I don't think it should really be considered a "romance" in any proper sense.
 

CharlesEBrown

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You guys are funny.

Two things. First, blame Harry. Don't shoot the messenger.

Second, Harry's right. (Go ahead, shoot the messenger.) There's a Romance genre. There's not a "Just Friends" genre.

(Easy, I'm messing around.)

Friends are great. Sure. But I'm trying to think of a book I curled up around and really loved, that was about just friends. I honestly can't think of one. I'm always like, "When are you guys gonna fuck, already?!?!"

I dunno. Maybe it's me.
Nah - a lot of people have that same view. I generally go the other way to NOT wanting them to fall into bed together (or at least doing a "James Bond Fade to Black Fade Back In To One Of Them Waking Up In Bed and The Other Half Dressed out of it" if they must).
Actually, ok. Now I'm really being serious. Maybe this is why, as far as Jane Austen, I prefer Sense and Sensibility over Pride and Prejudice. Because, in Sense and Sensibility, Elinor is all about appearances and propriety, and she maintains cordial, rigid friendship with Edward Ferrars through most of the book while at the same time castigating Mariane for her unrestrained libido, caprice, and flights of passion. And the friendship between Elinor and Edward is all very sweet and quite beautiful in its own way, and it is seemingly enough for them... until it isn't. And the reason we still read the book and love it today is that it's all the more beautiful when the friendship turns into something much more, and Elinor and Edward realize that they've been pining for each other all along. The takeaway: if Elinor and Edward had remained friends all the way to the end, no one would know the book today. The book is still read today, and it's great, because they transcended their friendship.
I liked Sense and Sensibility and Sea Monsters myself. The film version of Pride and Prejudice and Zombies was kind of cool (read Pride and Prejudice either in college or high school but never read Sense and Sensibility nor the text version of Pride and Prejudice and Zombies though).
 
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