Have you tried considering your female characters as actual people with their own wants, desires, and agency, rather than as a sexual object / bunch of body parts? And maybe extend that to women in real life as well?
You make a good point. Initially, I would have dismissed the idea, because just considering one side of a coin doesn't magically make the other disappear.
But then, I remembered that sexual attention can be overbearing, and as a result, hot girls act like crazy bitches to filter out unwanted attention.
It's like, if I am a hungry mf stumbling upon a delicious-looking cookies, I won't care about its history, its ingredients, or how much love it was made with. But if you tell me it's made of crazy rotten shit, it might stop me.
In conclusion, the sexual urges can be countered by the urge to run away or to punch the character
Maybe you shouldn't design all of them with more tit than torso and half an outfit's worth of fabric shared between them?
unacceptable
Get a real life girlfriend you love enough to feel guilt over being horny for what isn’t her.
You're asking me to love a real person? REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
I've heard chastity cages might help with horny problems (or turn you into a horny trap)
I need chastity gloves to stop me from writing shit
Are you familiar with the concept of purging your intrusive thoughts/thots?
does it involve inserting a needle in the eye socket?