A little rant re: Tags, and reading stories which you are predisposed to dislike...

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Serious question here, even if I am slightly irked this keeps cropping up.

(Please note this happens on RR mostly, but as I crosspost on both sites, i feel I'll post here for a change)

So like... I'm writing a story that contains harem, right? I know how divisive that is, and why people rightly don't like it. So I... like tag the story Harem clearly, I make it very clear in the blurb that it's harem. Then I still get people complaining that it's harem, like they are surprised lol, saying 'I hate harems'.

I mean, I've had someone now effectively tell me as a person I don't understand love, just because I write a harem story, which stings a little lol. That's like saying if i wrote a dark anti-hero character I'm siding with evil...

So seriously. There are some things I'm not keen on. NTR for example. So i wouldn't read a story that was prominently labelled as NTR in the first place, except in exceptional circumstances, and if i did (say i was recommended it as 'just so awesome you have to read it anyway' I sure as hell wouldn't complain about the presence of the NTR I know is in there, because that's the point of it.

Ugh, seriously, I know it doesn't really matter, it's just some critisism, but... like, it's mad frustrating. there's plenty of other stuff to crisitise in my story, like it's absurdly glacial pace lol. But why express disdain for a key story element you knew would be there. Unless you didn't read the tags/blurb, but then who reads 100+ chapters of a story they never read the synopsis for. I don't get that either lol!

Anyway, rant over, i feel better now *wink*
But as both a writer and a reader on both sites, It just strikes me as odd. Unless people are doing it to mess with me... I suppose that might be possible lol.

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As someone who doesn't really like harem stories I've stepped into a couple of them by accident. The only one that I actually liked was apothecary dairies because it is from the perspective of someone who is in a harem and not by choice.

I came to the conclusion that it is not really harem stories that are the problem but that they almost always fail the bechdel test.

The usual criteria of the Bechdel Test are (1) that at least two women are featured, (2) that these women talk to each other, and (3) that they discuss something other than a man.
 

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You will get used to it. :blob_whistle: Then there will come the silent one star readers who don’t give a reason why just rate and leave. Then those who simply rate one star because you have too high overall score. All of this will mean nothing in the end and keep writing for those who like your story. The rest can go and eat a cookie left out in the rain.:blob_cookie:
 

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I've had a person give my story a one-star review because my mc in a tansgender story had a transgender friend and two gay friends while having only one friend that wasn't any of those. So, uh, yeah. That happens, and I don't think you're gonna get a clear answer why people do it.
 
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Serious question here, even if I am slightly irked this keeps cropping up.

(Please note this happens on RR mostly, but as I crosspost on both sites, i feel I'll post here for a change)

So like... I'm writing a story that contains harem, right? I know how divisive that is, and why people rightly don't like it. So I... like tag the story Harem clearly, I make it very clear in the blurb that it's harem. Then I still get people complaining that it's harem, like they are surprised lol, saying 'I hate harems'.

I mean, I've had someone now effectively tell me as a person I don't understand love, just because I write a harem story, which stings a little lol. That's like saying if i wrote a dark anti-hero character I'm siding with evil...

So seriously. There are some things I'm not keen on. NTR for example. So i wouldn't read a story that was prominently labelled as NTR in the first place, except in exceptional circumstances, and if i did (say i was recommended it as 'just so awesome you have to read it anyway' I sure as hell wouldn't complain about the presence of the NTR I know is in there, because that's the point of it.

Ugh, seriously, I know it doesn't really matter, it's just some critisism, but... like, it's mad frustrating. there's plenty of other stuff to crisitise in my story, like it's absurdly glacial pace lol. But why express disdain for a key story element you knew would be there. Unless you didn't read the tags/blurb, but then who reads 100+ chapters of a story they never read the synopsis for. I don't get that either lol!

Anyway, rant over, i feel better now *wink*
But as both a writer and a reader on both sites, It just strikes me as odd. Unless people are doing it to mess with me... I suppose that might be possible lol.

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I hate harem. I hate NTR. I hate hoomanity. I hate chickenburger.
 

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like... I'm writing a story that contains harem, right? I know how divisive that is, and why people rightly don't like it.
Yer not doing it right.
I suspect yer just boring. Everyone has sex. What you need is fun. Fer example, normal harem story, but plot twist the MC fucks with time and find HIMSELF in the Harem with no memory of how it happened.

Like, wait, I had like four bitches, now I'm the bitch? Paradox suck.

Now you get to imply a whole yaoi situation but never have to describe it, but everyone keeps talking about all the shit they had done.
 

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Yer not doing it right.
I suspect yer just boring. Everyone has sex. What you need is fun. Fer example, normal harem story, but plot twist the MC fucks with time and find HIMSELF in the Harem with no memory of how it happened.

Like, wait, I had like four bitches, now I'm the bitch? Paradox suck.

Now you get to imply a whole yaoi situation but never have to describe it, but everyone keeps talking about all the shit they had done.
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I am surrounded by ignorance and conviction! Your head pats cannot affect me! I do not secretly wish to be hugged and told I am accepted by people! I am a unique individual just like all the other people who act like me who I act like in turn like one massive circle jerk of the blind leading the blind! Smash whatever it is the herd I follow is smashing today!

*sulks with idea*

My idea.
 

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I am surrounded by ignorance and conviction! Your head pats cannot affect me! I do not secretly wish to be hugged and told I am accepted by people! I am a unique individual just like all the other people who act like me who I act like in turn like one massive circle jerk of the blind leading the blind! Smash whatever it is the herd I follow is smashing today!

*sulks with idea*

My idea.
:blob_neutral::sweating_profusely:
 
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