The down side is harboring a grudge and bitterness that continues to affect you even after his passing.
Nah. You see, it wasn't just him. It was him and his gang. But the thing is, I don't really care about the others. You know why? 1989 Brian graduated. In 1990, I went back to HS in 12th grade, only 3 bullies in his group were left in school. First time they messed with me, I took them on 3 on one and basically sent all them off for medical treatment. They stopped fucking with me for the rest of the year. It wasn't until the summer when Brian came back that I got jumped.
Everything started with him, everything continued with him, everything ends with him. I mean, it's been over for a while now, but by sheer chance I finally found out where he is buried. I was always gonna return that baseball bat, it's just I was going to use it to bash his skull in. Bastard died before I had a chance.
If it's like that, it's more likely he was in some crime syndicate, and somebody killed him and cover it with something like heart attack. It's more like he has been killed by his own colleague.
Another possibility is someone else he beat the crap out of came after him. Clark basically went insane from Brian's bullying, got committed to a hospital, and eventually killed himself. I mean, when you are that much of an asshole, someone is bound to want you dead. But yeah, it occurred to me might be organized crime.
Someone will have to clean the grave, so they'll find the note.
As long as it doesn't have anything that leads directly back to you though, it should be fine. Otherwise there might be a few awkward conversations about it.
Well, I have no intention of lying.
Which is also why I only have a grudge against him. You see, I know he had other collaborators, but you know, getting beaten into a coma, messes with your memory. I am not certain who else was involved or specifically what they did. If I don't know 100% what someone has done, I have no intention of making any accusations.
Bryan? Oh. I got a decade of BS from that guy.
You could always add your own two cents to the inscription like this guy did.
Why?
That's from the tombstone. What Do I need to add? This is true. When he died, he made the world a better place. This is what makes me think he was abusing his family. DEAR GOD, who would put this on a loved one's tombstone unless you secretly hated the guy? I mean, yeah, it SOUNDS nice, but the more you read it, the more you start to think... wait a minute... Are they talking about BEFORE they died, or AFTER they died?
I would have said, "Every day he left the world a far better place than he found it." That means you actively improved it. Not, "I made a few people happy at some point, which might be when they collect my life insurance."