Odd bestie of mine

Nevafrost

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Today my friend asked me a question,
"What stage are you in? Do you share your problems with your family and they hide theirs from you? Or, you want to share your problems with them but they refrain you from doing so? Or, they are willing to listen to you but you’re not telling them?" I was kinda surprised at her question as this relates to my current situation. (She asks peculiar questions some times tbh).
So, I answered her that I was in the 3rd stage. She then she explained that she had a fight with her mom 2 days ago (about her studies) and she was frustrated. Then, she had a dream. There we both were present. We were standing on the edge of a hill and it was pitch black all around. And, then we both jumped into the void.
So, she asked me if something happened and I told her that I also had a fight with my mom a few days ago and I was also frustrated. She said,"I won't force you to tell me anything. But, I'm willing to listen." I told her that I couldn't tell her just yet and the first one I should tell is my mom (I was referring to my disease but I didn't tell her what my problem was. She first assumed it was about studies as well.) Then, she was like, okay, no prob. Then, we just talked as usual and I just blurted out that I have been facing this problem for 7 years. She looked shocked and pulled my hand. I thought she would guess something like me being harassed or something. Then, she went,"What have you been through since you were 8? Is this any disease we are talking about? " I literally was stunned. I said, "No, what you talking about?" She said, "I'm only guessing. Never mind. "



How did she.... I don't even look sick.


Edit:Oddly we didn’t have any communication in the meantime when we experienced these sufferings. And, she told me all those when she first saw me after the vacation.
 
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MatchaChocolate69

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There are people with whom you forge such strong connections and become so in sync that you can anticipate each other's thoughts or instantly notice when something is wrong. In those cases, it's not uncommon to share experiences or even dreams. You're lucky to have a friend like that.

I think your mother also senses that something is off, but it's not easy to be honest with ourselves and voice our worries, especially because sometimes it feels like saying them out loud makes them real.

Take care, lil' sis. :blob_pat_sad::blob_uwu:
 

ThrillingHuman

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Isn't it normal for your friends to know what you're going through if they're secretely mind-flayers?
edit: oops
 

Navillus

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Best friends often have a sixth sense when it comes to each other, I always know when something is wrong with my best friend as I'll get really bad panic attacks when they are having problems and my best friend is probably the only reason I'm still alive because they acted on a gut feeling and stopped me from committing suicide... That's why Best friends are the best! Also good luck there isn't many things much harder than talking about problems to others that's especially the case for family.
 

Nevafrost

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Best friends often have a sixth sense when it comes to each other, I always know when something is wrong with my best friend as I'll get really bad panic attacks when they are having problems and my best friend is probably the only reason I'm still alive because they acted on a gut feeling and stopped me from committing suicide... That's why Best friends are the best! Also good luck there isn't many things much harder than talking about problems to others that's especially the case for family.
Yeah, she is great except the part that she has frequent mood swings lol
 

ArlindoFrancisco

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Know one another for a long time and talk about everything; one is invested enough to care for the other and pick on things and guess others; it is only natural for married couples, best friends, and close family members for these kinds of situations to happen to them all the time.

Is just normal behavior.
 

Nevafrost

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Know one another for a long time and talk about everything; one is invested enough to care for the other and pick on things and guess others; it is only natural for married couples, best friends, and close family members for these kinds of situations to happen to them all the time.

Is just normal behavior.
I'm glad to have someone like that
 

Nolff

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I'm still alive because they acted on a gut feeling and stopped me from committing suicide...
You what

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