Women going after men just cause they are strong is more fantasy world like. Nowadays most people just want some who make them feel like they are loved and special, or someone they can enjoy themselves with.
We have literal pictures of our characters, just stick it in the glossary and ask people if they want to see it else they can use there own imagination. It would also give the glossary some much needed love
You can do it
Btw, do you guys want to make a discord server, I said making one will make the thread a bit obsolete but I feel some of you would find a server easier