Yeppp that one. Now I remember mentioning her to you(probably in our trauma dumping session lol).
We got loads of shit going on in our life and now we are twinning disease too.
Wish I saw this earlier, but if something is wrong, please do get help.
And if it's someone else in your family, try to coax them.
I still regret not being able to convince my grandmother to get help sooner.